Is there anyone i could really trust to such an extent that i have no worries of breaching it? Currently i couldnt find that person who fits in this category. Those people whom i really close to, i could only reveal that much to them, and not all as what i expected or intended to.
I have talked to those people that im close to, and told me to interact, open up, coming back to Plurk!
But then again, i began to wonder whether human beings are really that forgiving in the first place.
Either that, or the best case scenerio will be moving on and left the past behind me. I believe that the past have made it a lose-lose situation for all parties. Hence the reason of moving on rather than staying put and caused unhappiness.
Can someone teach me how to trust people once again?
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I can not teach you to overcome your fear. when we put our trust into a person and they betray that trust, either intentionaly or through their own character flaws, we blame ourselves for extending that trust in the first place. yet, that is misplaced blame. the desire to trust another is rooted in our social psychie. for me it was best if i kept in mind that stereotyping others ( which is what we do when we withhold our trust and faith from one, because of the actions of another)is futile and pointless. just as the "self" blame is. I have been eager to find another to trust with as much of myself as i am emotionally capable of. simply because when you allow yourself to trust another human being we subcosciously validate ourselves. we are likeable enough so that others want our trust and special enough to select who that will be. you will trust again. we never trust completely but we come as close as is nessesary to give us hope in humanity.
thanks for the advice. guess is a matter of time before i could really trust a person once again.
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