Twist to an ending

hmm..there seem to be a twist in the ending..haha..in the first place is just an misunderstanding..then later she replied back to the msgs where i find it too harsh, too unfair and cant find any justice why she wants to break the friendship. Firstly, this is the first misunderstanding that we had, and before this, our friendship was good to say the least. we didnt quarrel to such an extent that our friendship was in doubt. i know that i was very stubborn in saying sorry to her, that why she was angry to me.

i know that she doesnt really meant what she say in the msg..and i already apologise to her...through this misunderstanding, i only get to know her better.. is just that we dont have the opportunity to get to know each other better, it wont happen in the first place. i know that she had vent her anger on me, but i still keep my cool..i didnt leave her in the lurch when we got this misunderstanding.. at this moment, i only treating her as a friend and as a sister in christ..nothing more..nothing less..

i offered to treat her to a meal as a result of this misunderstanding and also in a way inflicted hurt, anguish and anger in her. until now, she haven msg..but i take her silence as an agreement then..hehe..donno lah..wait for her reply lor..or else another misunderstanding again..

i find this is the only way to really keep your cool even when problems come all at the same time..no matter how angry you are, you cannot solve the solution just by thinking all for yourself and also have to consider the feelings to the other party.. i definitely learn alot of lesson..even if she got any problems and want to vent on me, i really dont mind at all, just to make her feel better.. i just making my position as a brother in christ clearer to her..i guess you people out there might be thinking about my limits..but as long as God is in control, there is no limit in me as long as i help my sister in christ to solve the problem in a more appropriate way.